The story was once told to me about a Man falling from a 46 storey building and was asked halfway through how it was going he replied fine. We all know he really is not fine.
Again a young boy saw his favorite uncle from the window and ran out the door without his shoes, he soon ran into a piece of broken bottle he had thrown out the previous night, he was forced to stop and it was obviously painful.
Either it is going fine for now or we have run into one of those broken bottles on the track of life like
that young boy, we all need to at one point or the other apply a stop.
I would like to explain using the concept of a well-known sport which is car racing; formula 1 is one of the competitions in that sport. In a pit stop competitors make grounds beyond the driver that stops. However, the car that made the additional pit stop will run faster on the race track than cars that did not make the stop, both because it can carry a smaller amount (and thus lower weight) of fuel, and will also have less wear on its tires, providing more traction and allowing higher speeds in the corners. Not to mention that failure to have a pit stop may eventually lead to a forced
stop.
So Stopping can be applied to things as little as crossing the road and something as big as a processing a thought. Life is a race, a struggle to stay in track among other things, there would forever be a debate on who you are racing against, the best I have found is your previous best effort. It’s a fact that life is 30% what happens to us and 70% how we respond to it, so if you currently have a forced stop in life the best reaction to it would be to convert it into a pit stop. If you are still wondering what I am talking about, we all need to at one time or the other retreat, rethink and re-strategize. Really it should be often.
WHAT YOU GAIN FROM STOPPING.
Avoid collision: gives u chance to outline your principles and create some if you don't have one and this helps you avoid confusion from another person's principle or lack of it. Increase Speed: to achieve goals many times is about being at the right place at the right time and it takes a slow person to arrive later. Pit stops give us the time to learn vital skills, gather information and meditate on them. You also get to drop the unneeded.
And Finally
Tackle the Reason for problem and not the cause of it: So if your stop is a forced one converted into a
pit stop, you should learn not to be like the young man I mentioned earlier who thinks he was stopped
by a piece of broken, the truth is he was stopped by the action he took previously, somebody else
would say he was stopped because he had no shoes
on. A Stop makes gives you the chance to think of
the reason you have problems and not the cause of
the problem.
Remember to stop, rethink and restrategize.
Remember to do it frequently.
Thursday, 5 February 2015
Wednesday, 12 November 2014
STORIES WORTH SHARING
A pastor was struggling to prepare his sermon and didn't want to be disturbed by his five year old daughter, so he removed a map of the world from his study, tore it into pieces and gave it to her to assemble with the promise that he would answer all her questions and play with her when she was done. He knew she would never be able to fix it.
To his amazement, in less than five minutes, she returned to him in his study with the map in perfect shape, every continent and every country in its place.
The surprised father asked, ''Honey, u don't know anything about geography, so how did u fix the world so easily and quickly?"
The five year old girl smiled sweetly and replied, ''The picture of Jesus was at back of the map and i knew that if i have Jesus in the right place, the whole world would be in perfect shape''.
That was just the right inspiration he needed for his sermon. He thanked his daughter and prepared a powerful sermon on the subject: "Fix your world by placing Jesus at the right place".
Just place Jesus in his rightful place and all your life will be in order
To his amazement, in less than five minutes, she returned to him in his study with the map in perfect shape, every continent and every country in its place.
The surprised father asked, ''Honey, u don't know anything about geography, so how did u fix the world so easily and quickly?"
The five year old girl smiled sweetly and replied, ''The picture of Jesus was at back of the map and i knew that if i have Jesus in the right place, the whole world would be in perfect shape''.
That was just the right inspiration he needed for his sermon. He thanked his daughter and prepared a powerful sermon on the subject: "Fix your world by placing Jesus at the right place".
Just place Jesus in his rightful place and all your life will be in order
Tuesday, 24 December 2013
DOSSIER: IS WENGER ATTEMPTING TO INSULT THE EPL OR ATTEMPTING HISTORY AGAIN
If you ever wondered why Arsene Wenger’s priority over the
summer was to get a striker, I guess the game against Manchester United and
Monday’s game against Chelsea would have been the final pieces in your jigsaw,
if not; maybe you were not just looking.
MATCH STATS
PERFORMANCE INDICATOR
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MANCHESTER UNITED
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ARSENAL
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SCORES
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1
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0
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POSSESSION
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40.5%
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59.5%
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SHOTS ON TARGET
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2
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2
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SHOT ACCURACY
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40%
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33.3%
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GIROUD RATED
GOAL.COM’S Flop of the match.
PERFORMANCE INDICATOR
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ARSENAL
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CHELSEA
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SCORES
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0
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0
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POSSESSION
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59.5%
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40.5%
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SHOTS ON TARGET
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2
|
4
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SHOT ACCURACY
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61.4%
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38.6%
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If the need to bolster the striking force of the erstwhile
league leaders was not obvious before the game on Monday, I am sure even the
blind can point it out as the reason arsenal could not take their chances and
why although it was a game against one of the big teams, it was two points
dropped rather than one point gained.
Arsenal’s frustration in going
forward in the game against united is further exposed by the fact that their
best combination of passes in their nearly 60% control of the game was between
Koscielny and Vermalaen whereas Manchester United had their best combination in
Valencia and Rooney.
Giroud’s criticism in the Man Utd
game can start from the goal van persie scored, he was flat footed in the duel
and although running towards the ball gave van persie some advantage he allowed
van persie leap over him to put David Moyes’ charges one goal up. He continued
the game showing how poor he can be with off the ball runs, not trying to get
behind the Man Utd defence line when arsenal was in possession limiting arsenal
to the same number of shots on target as their opponents even though they had
20% more of the ball. Furthermore arsenal put in more crosses in the game than
united and had more success with their crossing accuracy than United but the
wastes of the crosses got even worse when he was joined by want away Nicklas
Bendtner. In the Chelsea game which is the most recent show of shame from a
forward player hoping to lead his team to the title, Giroud’s criticism can
start anywhere really.
GIROUD AGAINST CHELSEA
TOTAL PASSES
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PASSING ACCURACY
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DUELS WON
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AERIALDUELS WON
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Goal.com
PLAYER RATING
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31
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64.5%
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43.8%
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30%
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2/5
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Arsenal attempted a total of ten
shots in the Manchester United game twice as much as the red devils. Only two
of those shots were credited to Giroud. In fact Arsenal is now third in the
league’s goal scorers’ chat only to Man City and Liverpool. Of all the 33 goals
scored so far only 7 [21%] have come from a Giroud. Liverpool who are the next
best to City in the league with points have scored 42 goals with 19 [45%] of
them coming from, you guessed right Suarez.
Wenger really is insulting the
premier league by attempting to win it with a striking combination of Giroud
and Bendtner or if you prefer I say Giroud and Podolski.
Let us take a look at what strike
partnership have delivered the league in the last 5 years.
YEAR
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CLUB
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STRIKE
PATNERSHIP
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TOTAL LEAGUE GOALS
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2013
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MANCHESTER UNITED
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ROONEY & VAN PERSIE
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12+26=38
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2012
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MANCHESTER CITY
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AGUERO AND DZEKO
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23+14=37
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2011
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MANCHESTER UNITED
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CHICHARITO & BERBATOV
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13+20=33
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2010
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CHELSEA
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DROGBA & LAMPARD
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29+22=51
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2009
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MANCHESTER UNITED
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RONALDO & ROONEY
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18+12=30
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For the sake of doing an estimate,
if we assume that Giroud would find the net in the remaining two games of the
first round of matches. That would bring his tally to 9 for the season and if
he enjoys the same form he had at the beginning of the season sometime during
the second round of matches he would have 18goals by the end of the season
which would be match to the poorest goal haul by a league winning team’s top
scorer [Ronaldo in 2009].
The days of the defensive woes are
definitely over with Arsenal sitting as the second best defence in the league
so close to midway in the season. Save the Man City game Arsenal have kept it
tight at the back and are far more stable at the back.
If Wenger really intend to carry on
his title challenge, end arsenal’s trophy-less run and above all consolidate
the presence of arguably the best creative midfielder in the World, he should
really consider changing the attacking options for the rest of the season.
Giroud not only fall short with his finishing but also with his connecting the
team together in leading the attack. The team has a number of options which
includes Theo Walcott and Podolski who arguments can be made for about some
prolific record in the past. Sanogo is largely unproven and Bendtner is
struggling with confidence.
Every other striker who would be
fit the pursuit of Arsenal this Season is cup tied in the Champions league, a
safe attempt for the while would be Lewandowski to drive home the title
challenge and put the squad in a good position for the season to come. A wild
card would be to loan Adebayor for the rest of the season to help with the
title push and the Champions league as well. To reposition Arsenal, a major
attacking option is needed as soon as can be added.
Tuesday, 17 December 2013
REMEMBER ME SERIES
Tough face, tough tackles, a tough hairstyle, mr hard man in person. Standing 6ft 3inches high is a man who has taken tackles, even the hard ones so personally that he travelled through Europe carrying this same tackles in his 'pouch'.
Holland, England and Italy all had strikers playing in their elite leagues feeling the tackles even after the conclusion of the very game I play against them. One of the fiercest faces a striker would look to whehhhvn trying to score an opposition, I played for the best clubs in the country and in fact the continent at my time, got any clue yet?
First name is really Jakob, maybe that won't help.
These days I am a coach in the same game at a club in a place I'd call home. I got in trouble with Nandrolone during my playing days. Did you also say what's that?
Holland, England and Italy all had strikers playing in their elite leagues feeling the tackles even after the conclusion of the very game I play against them. One of the fiercest faces a striker would look to whehhhvn trying to score an opposition, I played for the best clubs in the country and in fact the continent at my time, got any clue yet?
First name is really Jakob, maybe that won't help.
These days I am a coach in the same game at a club in a place I'd call home. I got in trouble with Nandrolone during my playing days. Did you also say what's that?
TRIBUTE TO A PRICE PAYER- ANDRES ESCOBAR
Have you ever heard of another chance? This guy did not get any glimpse of it, he passed on at 27 and that's the mildest way to represent the 'cold' blood murder of a very soft man but tough tackler who no doubt was one of the best players for his country during his playing years. Fondly remembered by his alias 'the gentle-man' of football. Many children in the part of the world where I grew up would not find out that scoring an 'own-goal' during a football game is not called escobar and that escobar is just the name of the football player who has paid the highest price for scoring an own goal (OG). So while I was confused on whether to call this write-up 'players who payed cheaper prices' or 'these ones were lucky because they escobar went ahead' or 'players escobar's life paid ransom for', I said to myself why not make it a tribute to Andres Escobar himself.
It was said that he was murdered because of the own goal he scored against his nation Columbia while representing them against USA, this own goal was believed to have caused financial losses to some powerful drug-lords, so they sadly took his life to draw even.
This write up compiles a list of players who despite scoring many own-goals during their career, they stay alive and sometimes still get the support of the very club they self destruct against.
1. Pascal Cygan: If you find an Arsenal fan who absolutely loves Cygan, +1 this article on google plus. On a real though after taking the lead through Thierry Henry's 16th minute penalty, Arsenal seemed content with this narrowest of advantages and paid the price when the perennially hapless Pascal Cygan diverted Loukas Vintra's long-ranger into his own net with 16 minutes remaining. The game ended in a draw and nearly cost Arsenal in the Champions League that year but the magic of another chance would mean that Cygan went on to be a part of the 'Invincibles' squad, covering up in left back position due to injuries to the left backs of the day. He later moved on to Villarreal and is still alive today.
2. Jamie Carragher: Gerrard was Mr Captain Fantastic and this man was Mr consistent. Carragher was almost always available for selection during his playing days, despite scoring aa number of telling own goals wearing the red colors of Liverpool. Being allowed to live on even after so many errors made him go on to achieve a lot with Liverpool and England including going on to becoming the holder of the club's second highest appearance record.
3. Jérôme Boateng: scored an own goal in a Bundesliga match against Bayer Leverkusen. This was the winning goal, and had it not occurred Bayern Munich would have ended the season undefeated in the Bundesliga. He still rises to applaud from many Bayern fans and he scored the winning goal for them in a champions league game against Manchester City later on.
This list can go on and on but the idea is to remember Escobar while letting everyone remember that if given the chance, someone who absolutely makes a mess of everything can go on to be extremely useful.
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| Andres Escobar |
It was said that he was murdered because of the own goal he scored against his nation Columbia while representing them against USA, this own goal was believed to have caused financial losses to some powerful drug-lords, so they sadly took his life to draw even.
This write up compiles a list of players who despite scoring many own-goals during their career, they stay alive and sometimes still get the support of the very club they self destruct against.
1. Pascal Cygan: If you find an Arsenal fan who absolutely loves Cygan, +1 this article on google plus. On a real though after taking the lead through Thierry Henry's 16th minute penalty, Arsenal seemed content with this narrowest of advantages and paid the price when the perennially hapless Pascal Cygan diverted Loukas Vintra's long-ranger into his own net with 16 minutes remaining. The game ended in a draw and nearly cost Arsenal in the Champions League that year but the magic of another chance would mean that Cygan went on to be a part of the 'Invincibles' squad, covering up in left back position due to injuries to the left backs of the day. He later moved on to Villarreal and is still alive today.
2. Jamie Carragher: Gerrard was Mr Captain Fantastic and this man was Mr consistent. Carragher was almost always available for selection during his playing days, despite scoring aa number of telling own goals wearing the red colors of Liverpool. Being allowed to live on even after so many errors made him go on to achieve a lot with Liverpool and England including going on to becoming the holder of the club's second highest appearance record.
3. Jérôme Boateng: scored an own goal in a Bundesliga match against Bayer Leverkusen. This was the winning goal, and had it not occurred Bayern Munich would have ended the season undefeated in the Bundesliga. He still rises to applaud from many Bayern fans and he scored the winning goal for them in a champions league game against Manchester City later on.
This list can go on and on but the idea is to remember Escobar while letting everyone remember that if given the chance, someone who absolutely makes a mess of everything can go on to be extremely useful.
Monday, 1 April 2013
AMAZING IS ABNORMAL
Normal things happen to normal people, Outstanding starts from abnormal.
Having graduated from the university as a mechanical engineer, Adaka had trekked the entire length and breadth of Port Harcourt’s Trans-Amadi Industrial Estate in search of a job to no avail. At the last count, he felt his curriculum vitae (which only had his industrial training of six months as the only working experience) had graced almost every receptionist’s inbound tray in all the companies there. His uncles who had promised him jobs after school came up with many excuses or at least told him he would be contacted if anything came up. Three years down the line, no call from any uncle had graced his cell phone.
One Sunday morning, some Bible-clutching folks had come to preach to him. They listened to him as he narrated his woes and came to a conclusion. “What is happening to you is not normal. You need prayers,” they said. So Adaka prayed and fasted in the hope of breaking the spell of doom from the village and yet the sky was still dark as haunted cave.
Broke and flustered, Adaka decided not to think like a normal graduate. He decided to drive a taxi. He printed business cards with some money a friend of his casually threw at him during a party, and shaped up the few nice shirts he had and set to work, driving one of his uncle’s fairly used Toyota Carina which he willingly gave to him, at least to show his hospitality to a struggling young man.
Adaka hit the streets, driving his taxi with glee, handing out his business cards to mothers who needed kids to be dropped at school, business men who needed drops at the airport or to be waited upon at functions. Nine months later, Adaka had three mini-Hiace buses, his own office and was planning to wed his girlfriend of five years!
A normal Nigerian graduate in our times is the one who thinks the money comes from working in an oil company and going to offshore rigs even if he or she studied Shorthand as a course.
A normal graduate is the one who thinks mechanics are lesser beings.
A normal Nigerian graduate is the one who thinks business is just buying and selling and it is for brains that couldn’t withstand the rigors of academic labors and so decided to do boy-boy apprenticeship.
A normal Nigerian graduate is the one who thinks sitting in an air conditioned office is a mark of success and prestige. He or she thinks the connection to success only lies in the fat hands of Aso Rock or House of Assembly occupants and so they press for their signatures in exchange for a few romps in classy hotels.
A normal Nigerian graduate is the one who thinks being a politician is the passport to financial prosperity for his next ten generations.
A normal Nigerian graduate is the one who wants his salary to start at N500, 000 per month, probably as a compensation for the many months JAMB, ASUU and NYSC connived like thieves to make them lose productive portions of their lives.
A normal Nigerian graduate is the one who sees a marked demarcation between what is studied in school and how talents and passions can add value to humanity and in turn foster financial posterity.
So a Nigerian graduate who graduated from a Nigerian university thinks the way a normal Nigerian graduate thinks and also does what every other normal Nigerian graduate does – give up and stay home, cry about the government’s wickedness, feed off uncles, relations and parents who pity him while waiting for that manna to just fall.
When all else fails, he resorts to attending all-night vigils in many churches, having been convinced by normal thinking Bible clutching religious blokes who tell him “You need spiritual deliverance from demonic powers from your village.” In the hope of a providential divine stroke of luck, he panders to their whims.
Many Nigerian graduates do not realise that it gets to a point where they have to look away from the usual norms and do what may seem unpalatable to many but has the potential to become a global enterprise. They don’t just think of looking within to that God given intrinsic value that can provide opportunities for them to bless lives and be blessed in return. They just don’t think of looking at their vicinity and devising means to dispose neighbors’ refuse for a fee. They just don’t think of driving a taxi and putting creative edges to it. They don’t think of developing apps on their borrowed laptops even when they studied computer engineering. They don’t think of making grandma’s goats reproduce many kids they can eventually groom and then sell and expand as an Animal Scientist . There are so many ways not to think normal but the normal Nigerian graduate has a problem with abnormality
Monday, 25 March 2013
REMEMBER ME SERIES
Blonde curly hair, two-footed, ability on both wings, eight years in Juventus, any familiar chord struck yet? Jersey Number 11 jersey for Juventus for many years, ex winner of Ballon d'or award as European player of the year as well. NO not Zinedine great great player as well anyway. Seen as a replacement for Zidane in fact when Juventus splashed out 41Million Euros. A Czech republic player and four (4) times Czech footballer of the year. Possessing the ability to surge through defences with power and making best of defence combinations look so clueless at times. Remember me now?
I enjoyed so much success in my time with the old ladies and I was with the club when the Calcio poli crisis struck. Played for Czech republic in Euro 2004 up to the semi finals when we got beaten by eventual winners, Greece. Any Ideas?
There yet? If no, well its Pavel Nedved. Not been gone for long but it feels like forever. He also enjoyed a good playing time with Lazio from where he moved to Juventus. A truely great footballer. Below are some of his moments in pictures.
Next week I would bring to your remembrance a player who was a nightmare to many strikers. Played in England, Italy and Holland. Thinking cap on...
I enjoyed so much success in my time with the old ladies and I was with the club when the Calcio poli crisis struck. Played for Czech republic in Euro 2004 up to the semi finals when we got beaten by eventual winners, Greece. Any Ideas?
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| Nedved with his ballon d'or award |
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| Taking a shot at real madrid goalie and Hierro could only look on |
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| Up in the air with Nesta |
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| Twisting and turning Cannavaro |
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| On international duty |
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| The only way to top a rocket on the field of play |
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| Through Barcelona's defence |
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| Nightmare to defenders |
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| Remember That name always... Nedved |
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